Wholeness

“You will never be complete, as in finished…but you can be whole in knowing what you stand for and what you will not stand for.

Wholeness is a function of establishing and maintaining clear boundaries. Co-dependence is a function of compromised boundaries.”

Love is not the absence of pain but pain is the absence of love. The absence of love is the inability to know who you really are..

Gregory Morgan

“In the greatest darkness lies the possibility of great awakening. We live in such a time. Every challenge holds a gift; an opportunity for ever expanding fullness, to become who you really are, or to shrink into the shadows.

With awareness comes privilege and responsibility. We, you and I, hold the future in our hands. Will we leave a legacy of Lunacy or choose a Legacy of Love?”

“You are here for a reason. You have a special light or mission to bring into this world. Everything in your life especially your intimate relationships ought to be regarded in terms of whether or not they support you in fulfilling that mission.”

L’inoubliable (The Unforgettable)

“In everyone’s life there is one person you will never forget. No matter whom you end up with. They are your “unforgettable”. What you saw in them are hidden parts of yourself that you are longing to embrace. They are here to remind you, to call forth the love in you. That is why they are always with you.”

“It is important for a woman to love herself more than she loves any man. It is vital that she honors that love before any customs, traditions or opinions of others. If not, she will sell herself out to find approval and validation and in doing so becomes untrustworthy as a mother or wife.”

Knowing yourself is the essential starting point. Take your time and follow your heart.

Focus defines experience

“If you are focused on fear then fearful experiences will be drawn to you. Wherever you focus your energy defines your experience.  Energy is always drawn to that which is most like it. Your contracting, from fear, sends out ripples in the fabric of space/time attracting into your experience whatever you’re unwilling to embrace.”

Having children is not about you

“What ever you eventually do please don’t have children with a man until you are absolutely certain that you will stay with him for life. Do this for the future generations.”

Romantic love is an art

“Like fine architecture. You’re not expected to build a beautiful home that withstands the tests of time without knowing the materials or studying the blueprints. Yet all too often young women assume the responsibilities of a future for their children without preparation. And believe me it is not any better for the men.

If there is even a little bit of authentic love it is worth fighting for. There’s a difference between ‘love’ and ‘need’ and when you are desperate they look the same. In the darkness you can’t see the difference between red and grey.

“A man without a purpose is tossed about like a ship at sea.

When a man lives his purpose, his mind is deep and clear. He is fully present and passionate and his heart is free of fear.

A spiritual warrior does not accept ambiguity. A man like this wants everything or nothing.”

“Most men aren’t equipped to deal with opening to love through sexual and emotional intimacy while competing for success in the world. This requires balance, skill and discipline. It is not something that he is necessarily inclined to do or even to be interested in.”

Manage the relationship…not the man.

“When a man is ready to change he will do it for love and that is a rare and sacred stage in life. Then it’s not just change; it’s transformation. This has to happen in his time not yours. Why burden him with your anger? Your bad mood is just another burden to him.”

How to lose a man

“If a woman can harass her man into changing his path, to become what she wants him to be, then she won’t respect his wisdom. Having lost respect for him she will use his love against him and wear away his ego until he is worthless.”

“Keep your attention on the love in your heart. Your frustration is just more noise to him but your love is a magnet attracting him closer to his soul.”

A man’s value

“A man’s value to a woman and the world is directly related to his ability to stay focused in the midst of chaos. This quality makes him trustworthy and honorable. Women test this all the time because she really wants to open her heart to an honorable man.”

“When a man denies his own truth to please a woman, it never works. His core intentions become divided. He loses track of his purpose and his actions are no longer congruent . She feels his inner division and lack of purpose, and she can’t trust him. She won’t respect him or open her heart to his love.”

Finding “Mr. Right”

“When you will only open your heart to a man whose wisdom, confidence and love leads you deeper than you have ever been on your own; then such a man will appear.”

Without darkness there is no light

“You are so Great! You have no idea who you really are. I know you can’t hear this like I mean it, but I’ll keep saying it until you do, because I want to be there when you get it.  People don’t come great; they show up like that in the very midst of their smallness.

Without darkness we couldn’t know light. Without humility there’s no Greatness.”

“Thank you for the courage it takes to share your smallness so we can get your greatness.”     Gregory Morgan

The Lesson

“The one who leaves the lesson before it is learned is destined to repeat it. Again and again you will attract the same experiences because deep down it is your own soul that longs to be complete.

You are the one that has called forth this experience for your own growth. If you throw it away it just comes back stronger. How will you know yourself if you sell out for some quick fix, or worse, keep shrinking away from the pain until you become a contracted gripped up shadow of yourself?”

“I have loved with all of my heart.
And when I betrayed love, I paid the price.
Yet my heart can not stop loving.”
Gregory